So to catch those of you who have no idea up, I have never been in a relationship. I don't actual care that I haven't and its not that I don't want to, its that I haven't put myself out there or opened myself up to even make this a possibility. My own fault, maybe, but its how I am I guess, I don't know when it'll happen for me and I kind of have come to terms with this. Im ok with it because I know most relationships that occur before ur 20 are bogus, even though some of those evolve into actual healthy relationships. But yeah I dont exactly know where this blog is going all I know is that I have come to realize that Im sort of ready. I am not looking but I am also not resisting the idea. After countless years of my grandparents asking me when they get to meet my boyfriend, or when he was going to come to dinner, or my mom trying to pry answers about my imaginary boyfriend, or laughing at my dad's attempt to discover whether I was straight or gay. Hahaha. Just because I dont have a boyfriend doesn't mean I'm gay.
To be quite honest I was so sheltered in high school my true outgoing personality didn't emerge fully til my senior year in highschool which btw is too late and I was 12 paces behind everyone. But I guess I it doesn't matter we all travel at different speeds and experience different things in life. I think I was always worried about what people would think of my life, what people would say how they would react, enduring certain life battles, from my mom getting M.S, to my parents splitting up, to my countless moves. My Life may be different and unconventional but I think now that I seem to accept it for what it is, I'm ready to let other people in.
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